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Do you play the Life Will Be Better When/If Game?

Mar 01, 2022

Do you play the "Life will be better if" game?

Life would be better if
* my boss was not a jerk
* my employees had a better work ethic
* my customers were better understanding

This often leads to the "life will be better when" game.

Life will be better when
* I get the promotion
* I get the raise
* I have more people on my team

But here's the thing.... NOW IS PART OF GETTING TO THERE!

Waiting to be happy when, and if, certain things happen; is putting your happiness in the future.

It's prolonging the time without happiness.

I'm not suggesting not wanting these things.
I'm not suggesting not having goals and dreams.

In fact, I could goal set and achievement plan with you ALL day! It's one of my favorite things.

What I am offering, is an invitation to see NOW as an important part to getting there.

And getting there is so much more effective when you are not running away from here.

So much more fun!

Can you picture the future version of you that has the promotion, the raise, the awesome team?

If you can, go ahead and entertain the fact that it is good as DONE!

Then, you get to relax in the knowing and decide what you want that journey from here to there to look like.

Do you want it to look like stress and fear and worry?

Or, do you want it to look like fun and ease and accomplishment?

The choice is yours. It is coming soon, and how soon, depends on which you choose.

Now, if you can't picture a future where you have what you want, that is not a problem either.

It is an opportunity to start building that vision- checking in with what you really want and start seeing it as possibility.

Instead of playing the "life will be better if/ when game" start playing the "Life is amazing and keeps getting better" game.

Keep going. What is the alternative?

 

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Dawn Ledet

The Self Trust Coach

Dawn Ledet, renowned as The Self Trust Coach, is not your typical life coach. With an impressive background and a profound understanding of self-trust, Dawn has become a trusted guide for countless individuals seeking personal and professional transformation. Dawn's journey is marked by a deep acknowledgment of her own struggles with self-doubt and a lack of self-trust. Despite her remarkable achievements, she knows what it's like to feel like it's never enough, to be plagued by self-judgment and criticism, and to chase external validation. During a crucial turning point, Dawn discovered the power of self-trust. She learned that it's not a complex process, but rather a journey of self-discovery, vulnerability, and self-compassion. She decided to share this life-changing insight with others. As host of The Self Trust Solution Podcast, creator of THE SELF TRUST LAB- The Coaching Program to Build Self Trust and Achieve Your Goals, and many blog posts and articles, Dawn is on a mission to help individuals build a profound connection with themselves and cultivate unshakeable self-trust. She wants her clients to aspire to greatness, break free from self-imposed limitations, and stop deferring their dreams. Specializing in dismantling the barriers of push, pull, perfectionism, procrastination, and punishment, allows her clients to embrace their true potential. In Dawn Ledet, you'll find not just a coach but a compassionate and knowledgeable partner dedicated to helping you find peace and freedom within your own mind so that you can focus on taking your unique gifts out into the world. If you're ready to break free from self-doubt and embark on a journey of self-trust and achievement, Dawn is here to guide you every step of the way.